Hello Everyone
     Whenever I think of February I think of Love. I so wanted to get away from the heavier subjects this month…so I thought I would write about a popular topic that we all are interested in “Soul Mates”. Don’t we all wonder about soul mates? The topic has inspired great minds, intrigued Lovers for centuries. Also throughout those centuries we humans have always been subject to our own DNA. As we incarnated we chose a sexual orientation so that we could learn about duality. This seeming separation led humans “whether we are male or female” to believe we are only half a person, not a whole being. This has led us through time to believe that there is an exact match for us out there somewhere magically waiting for you.  Great Authors and storytellers through out time have created a mystique around the whole subject of Soul mates. This entire concept although very lovely and fun to believe may have led many people to the greatest loneliness of feeling separate and alone, like part of them was missing, but in essence much of the soul mate mythology is an illusion of duality that we as a race needed to complete experiences we came here to learn.
      But now in this new energy we are changing. We are beginning to understand the lessons of duality we understand that we are both masculine and feminine energy and many of us have worked very hard to balance this energy. In a recent channeling I asked the Angel Metatron to give us some words about Soul Mates.
      “This being was wondering about soul mates as a topic of interest. We tell you with love that you have all have made agreements before incarnating at this time. These agreements or “contracts” may be for a day or for years or a lifetime. They may or may not include all the romance that humans attach to the idea of soul mates. There will be many shifts as many contracts between humans have been finished and or changed and new contracts are being established. You will be amazed at the new pairings of humans. Soul Mates are not  always what you would think, some are friendships between young and old, Teacher and student, working partners, couplings of all description with one thing in common they have made agreements to come at this time together to experience this immense enlightening energy.
      One of the things I have learned is that it is not possible to create a relationship when people are a different vibration. In the old energy it was the norm. You married and made do with a person, people for many reasons stayed in relationships where they actually disliked the other person. Marriages are still being arranged in some countries. Let me begin by saying that this is changing in a very BIG way! Now creating a relationship only happens if you are like frequencies.
     It will become possible to only attract a harmonic vibration to your own. When you become aware of the vibrational pattern that you send out, you will become aware that you are attracting to you a frequency like your own. That alone will want to make you be the best you can be, for no other way can you attract your ideal mate, you have to become an ideal mate yourself. If you are not, or are living in a situation where the person you are with is a different vibration you will not be able to coexist any longer. Many people will experience drastic shifts in their personal relationships. People with imbalances in male-female energy will see the first and most profound changes. As you evolve, raising your vibration level as an individual, you naturally lose tolerance that you once had to deal with vibrational mismatches. Intolerance in the area of unbalanced male-female reaches a critical level, and many relationships will feel this stress. Some will fall apart when you stay in a relationship past the time of growth. It will only lower your vibrational level; you will begin to lose the tolerance that you once had to people with different frequencies. This causes more damage than you may ever know to all people in your energetic field. The children for whom you are willing to sacrifice your own happiness receive a tainted impression of what a relationship really is. They most often will repeat your same misdirection of energy time and again until they learn to override that particular energy vibration. If you love them, save them the painful things that you went through, and give them permission to find happiness by fearlessly reaching for happiness yourself. If you are in a relationship that no longer serves you, make an intention to change and move to the next level. Release it in love and dare to move forward. You’re sure to meet another Soul Mate! Soul Mates are all relative to the lessons you want to learn, the experiences you want to create in your life. Hey it happened just that way with me and it can happen for you to. I am sure there are soul mates as I have met many in my life as friends and teachers. This is the first time in my life I have worked on myself enough by fearlessly letting go of the past. I embraced my future, and met a soul of like vibration that I can grow with. I have never been happier and it’s awesome. So Yes there are Soul Mates, I don’t attach all the fancy names like Twin Flames to soul mates. I don’t think their definition is black and white, but that’s another article.                 

Judy